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Patrick Morency's avatar

Appreciating the enquiry as well here and finding myself both inspired by your perspective and it's implications as well as challenged by it which is good. Sounds like a recipe that's asking to take a look at an ingredient for health that may have been prematurely tossed into the rubbish bin. Anxiety: might be nourishing in small bites.

I immediately think of another ingredient, grief. Could tapping into grief, when counterbalanced by grounded action be the most embodied, long-term way to maintain contact with what we're calling metacrisis- what we could simply be calling life as it is now and the depth of what's been unraveling due to human ignorance and our solutions to problems that perpetuate more problems over centuries?

Following Joanna Macy's lead, I like this quote, "The sorrow, grief, and rage you feel is a measure of your humanity and your evolutionary maturity. As your heart breaks open there will be room for the world to heal."

Polyvagal gives us a great map, so do you, yet they don't speak much of blended states which I've recognized as both resourced and socially engaged while simultaneously sympathetically activated. This can occur with or without anxiety. With or without agency. The motivator is subjectively dependent. And if I'm taking in the chart correctly, you're proposing an exposure therapy type approach with the 'healing' vector, which at its nexus, would be a blended state- one of maximum learning. Cool. Or better yet, cooling.

I'm with you on the underrated potential of short-term activation leading to increasing wisdom. As uncomfortable as it can be, it does seem to sprout benefit in it's force to generate action in the short-term and learning. In the realm of activism, this may work well to get a gamer up off the couch. I wouldn't want to make it a habit without incredible fluidity and flexibility because it requires a strong and healthy NS for repeated exposure to activation.

A question that arises for me, could motivation by fear undercut masculine wholeness and development in the long run? I might be conflating your proposition with the question. I ask because I never experienced a socially engaged state until I was an adult, constantly activated, constantly anxious. The response was to numb- the other dorsal vagal/parasympathetic response: shutdown/freeze/collapse.

When we're collapsed, we must become activated to move toward social engagement. This is your 'inward directed' to 'alert' vector.

In my experience it's a risky recipe because not everyones subjective experience is going to map cleanly onto the chart. When it comes to trauma, high anxiety can lead to radically different outcomes due to subjective nervous system responces to stress relative to "trauma".

I'm recalling Al Gore's speeches about the climate and how they weren't received because people shut down in overwhelm even though he was spot on.

For some, leaflets of anxiety can send people to the ground or running in the streets like squirrels. Containment seems an essential prerequisite in what you're proposing (safety), internal or external or both (resource). I like it as a sprint, as you're proposing, and want to be careful because I feel concern that the throttle could easily get stuck leading to crashing into a tree or getting run over, like a squirrel.

The canopy protects us from the sun, it's a container. Too much and we're cooked. We also need sun to live. The heat is the anxiety, and could it also be blended without anxiety? Sounds like the same thing with activation toward alert//awareness and its resulting aliveness.

Jacob Kishere's avatar

Great to see you developing this enquiry in real time following our dialogues in Resonant Man. More to reflect on this: I think the key distinction for me is that the activated stated is extremely pertinent in the short term eg. in a regular crisis situation it can 'slow down time' and allow you to see and move quickly to an emerging threat. However, in trauma parlance, our predictive processing can be maladaptively coded to threats which are not relevant.

As you rightly point to, one of the great risks in metacrisis and under technological overwhelm is that we neither land in deep rest or enter a useful short term crisis, but spend a long time in the orange zone in a way that diminishes our capacity for either the red or the green.

I like how you've started to identify a new synthesis that somehow taps into the knowledge or awareness of the activated state, whilst staying deeply grounded and calm. I would say this is also the optimal masculine posture in the world as it affords the capacity to be aware of threats in the environment whilst also being 'the most grounded nervous system in the room'. To be actively diminishing the possibility of conflict and confusion through that grounding. I do also believe that in my most grounded state I have access to a much more expansive perception and information which goes away when my threat system narrows my perception.

There's more to explore on how our nervous systems are interconnected collectively and well grounded or activated nervous systems can impact others in way that develops or diminishes the capacity for collective thinking.

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